Published May 18, 2025 | By Alyx E, Founder of Collectors MD

Social media can be a double-edged sword for collectors. It’s a place to share your latest pickups, connect with fellow hobbyists, and stay updated on new releases. But it can also be a constant source of comparison, pressure, and FOMO.

Scrolling through your feed, you see post after post of pristine collections, high-end hits, rare grails, and perfectly curated displays. Everyone seems to be chasing something new, showing off their latest “big win,” or bragging about a fresh addition to their PC.

And even if you didn’t start your day thinking about making a purchase, seeing everyone else’s highlights can light that spark. Suddenly, you’re on eBay, Instagram, Whatnot, or another platform, trying to match the excitement you see on your screen.

But here’s the truth:
You’re only seeing the highlights. You’re seeing the wins, the curated displays, the filtered shots—not the regret, the missed hits, the credit card bills, or the quiet shame that some collectors feel when the thrill fades.

Social media is designed to make everything look perfect. But real collecting—just like life—is messy. It has highs and lows. And the healthiest collections aren’t built on comparison—they’re built on connection, intention, and personal meaning.

So today, take a moment to ask yourself:

• Do I buy because I truly want something, or because I want to keep up with what I see online?

• Am I collecting with intention, or just chasing the next big thing for the sake of social validation?

• Have I ever felt pressured to spend just to keep up appearances?

There’s nothing wrong with sharing your collection or celebrating others' achievements. But never forget that your journey is your own. You don’t need to compete, outshine, or outspend anyone to be a real collector.

Collect for you—not for the algorithm.

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Comparison is a trap. Connection is the treasure.

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