🎄 Merry Christmas to my friends, mutuals, and everyone on Mantel. 🎄

I only started this little archival journey back in late September, but in just a few short months it’s become something genuinely meaningful to me. What began as a quiet nostalgia project quickly turned into a space for preservation, shared memories, thoughtful discussion, and a surprising amount of joy.

Thank you to everyone who’s followed along, commented, shared stories, or simply appreciated these little snapshots of anime history. Whether you’re here for the deep cuts, the ephemera, the context, or just the vibes—I’m grateful you’re here.

Wishing you all a peaceful, cozy holiday, however you celebrate, and looking forward to continuing this archival adventure together into the new year. 💚❤

Business essentials. Are business cards even a thing anymore? ⚡ Mug is required for all the coffee needed to list cards.

TO THE MANTEL FAMILIES AND FRIENDS 🎄🎁💝

Published December 23, 2025 | By Alyx E, Founder of Collectors MD

The holidays have a way of tightening everything at once. Time. Expectations. Emotions. Finances. What’s meant to feel warm and generous can quietly turn into pressure, comparison, and a sense that we are somehow falling behind if we are not spending enough, gifting enough, or showing up in the “right” kind of way.

For many people, this season brings a very specific kind of anxiety around money and spending. There is the pressure to give more than we can afford, to match what others are doing, or to prove we care through purchases instead of presence. For collectors, that pressure can compound quickly. Holiday promotions, countdowns, limited drops, year-end “can’t miss” deals, and urgency-based marketing are everywhere. They tap directly into fear of missing out, nostalgia, and the desire to start the new year with something exciting or validating.

What makes this time especially challenging is that these urges often arrive when we are already emotionally taxed. Stress lowers our defenses. Fatigue makes impulse feel easier than intention. And the narrative becomes convincing: it’s a gift, it’s a deal, it’s once a year, I’ll figure it out later. But stress-based spending almost always comes with a delayed cost. It shows up later as regret, tension, secrecy, or the sinking realization that the momentary relief did not actually solve what we were feeling.

In the middle of all the noise and chaos, it’s easy to react before our wherewithal has a chance to catch up. Those are the moments when slowing down matters most—when finding a bit of calm and balance can meaningfully shape what comes next, not just the moment we’re in.

Getting caught up in these moments does not indicate you are weak. It means you are human. Modern systems are designed to press harder when people are most vulnerable. Awareness is not about restriction. It is about giving yourself room to pause. Room to ask what you actually need right now. Room to recognize when spending is being used as a coping mechanism rather than a choice aligned with your values.

The holidays are also meant to be a time of reflection. A chance to take inventory not just of what we want, but of what we already have. The relationships that held us. The moments that mattered. The fact that we made it through another year, even if it was imperfect, messy, or heavier than expected. Gratitude does not erase struggle, but it can ground us when everything feels loud.

If the season feels overwhelming, slow it down. If the urges feel strong, talk about them. If the pressure feels familiar, you are not alone. There is no prize for spending yourself into stress, and there is no shame in choosing presence, restraint, and self-respect over impulse.

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The holidays do not require perfection or excess. They ask us to notice what truly matters and to treat ourselves with the same care we offer others.

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