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Published January 14, 2026 | By Alyx E, Founder of Collectors MD

When we step away from a compulsive behavior, the hardest part often isn’t stopping, it’s sitting with what’s left behind. The quiet. The restlessness. The urge to fill the empty space. That discomfort can make it tempting to latch onto something new and call it “healthy” just because it isn’t the old behavior.

A lot of people don’t realize that in the space something like gambling addiction leaves behind, a hobby like collecting can quietly step in as a familiar replacement – especially when it’s wrapped in nostalgia. What feels like reconnecting with a childhood pastime can still trigger the same dopamine loops: the chase, the anticipation, the near-misses, the urge to keep going just a little longer. The packaging may look different, but the wiring underneath is fundamentally the same. Without intention, the behavior doesn’t actually change, it just puts on a less threatening mask that makes it harder to question.

Real, healthy coping mechanisms don’t exist to distract us, they exist to regulate us. They help slow the nervous system, ground the mind and body, and bring us back into the present moment without relying on urgency, risk, or escape. Walking, exercising, meditating, reading, journaling, cooking, or listening to music can all serve that purpose when they’re approached with awareness.

Healthy coping mechanisms are often what carry us through the hardest moments. They give us something steady to return to when emotions spike, urges hit, and life feels overwhelming.

When a coping tool starts to feel frantic, secretive, or driven by avoidance, it’s likely no longer serving its role. At that point, it’s the old habit expressing itself in a different way. That doesn’t mean you failed or lost progress. It means you caught the shift before it had a chance to take control again. Awareness is the moment where change actually becomes possible. Noticing the pattern early gives you the opportunity to pause, reset, and choose something that truly supports your well-being instead of repeating the same cycle under a different guise.

Recovery isn’t about finding the perfect replacement. It is about building flexibility. When you have multiple ways to self-soothe, reset, and reconnect, no single urge gets to run the show. Some days one tool will work. Other days that same tool may not. That isn’t failure, it’s feedback. Real stability comes from being able to adjust, respond, and keep moving forward instead of clinging to one solution and hoping it fixes everything.

The goal isn’t always to stay busy. The goal is to stay connected. Connected to your mind, your body, your values, and your ability to pause before reacting. That pause is where control comes back online. That’s where coping takes root.

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Today I received one of the coveted Mantel Hobby Award trophies made by Ghostwrite and limited to 35 copies.

Did I win it by creating a popular collecting platform? No.

Did I win it by operating a hobby shop? Nope.

Did I win it as a result of widely-recognized industry expertise? Definitely not.

I won it by being randomly selected in the recent Mantel contest. Money won is a lot sweeter than money earned.

I accept this award on behalf of Mantel Nation. This one belongs to the people!