Published August 08, 2025 | By Alyx E, Founder of Collectors MD

One of the hardest things to say out loud—sometimes even to ourselves—is: “I think I have a problem.”

In a hobby built on hype, celebration, and curated mail days, admitting that collecting has started to hurt more than it helps can feel like betrayal. To the culture. To your image. To the version of you that once found joy in the chase. But the truth is, many of us have been there—struggling behind the scenes with financial stress, strained relationships, obsessive thoughts, and a shame spiral we didn’t know how to stop.

What keeps so many of us silent? Pride. Embarrassment. Shame. Fear of judgment. The belief that if we just hit that next card—or sell enough to catch up—everything will be fine again. We tell ourselves it’s not that bad. We compare ourselves to someone “worse”. We minimize our struggles so we don’t have to face them.

But eventually, something shifts. Maybe it’s an overdraft notice. A partner’s ultimatum. A pile of unopened mail and unopened wounds. Or maybe it’s just a quiet moment of clarity where you realize: this isn’t who I want to be.

That moment of honesty is scary—but it’s powerful. Because once you name it, you can face it. And once you face it, you can start to heal.

At Collectors MD, we believe that honesty isn’t weakness—it’s the first real act of strength.
It’s what makes space for change.
It’s what turns pain into growth.
And it’s what connects us to one another in a community that sees you, not for what you’ve bought or pulled—but for who you are.

You’re not alone. And you don’t have to carry the shame by yourself.

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There’s no healing without honesty. And there’s no shame in starting over.

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