Published September 24, 2025 | By Alyx E, Founder of Collectors MD

Regret shows up in collecting in so many forms. The box we ripped when we knew we shouldn’t. The auction we chased until the credit card balance hurt. The card we sold too early, only to watch its value climb. In those moments, it’s easy to let regret anchor us in shame, to replay the decision over and over until it overshadows everything else.

But regret isn’t just a burden—it’s a teacher. Each time we feel that sting, it’s pointing to a boundary we crossed or one we didn’t set. It’s telling us where our impulse won out over intention, and where we have the chance to build a better plan for next time.

When the packs are empty and the wrappers pile up, the thrill fades—but the regret remains. That's why we promote collecting with intention, not compulsion.

The difference between being crushed by regret and being shaped by it is accountability. Do we sweep it under the rug and hope it never happens again? Or do we pause, admit what went wrong, and put a safeguard in place—whether that’s setting a hard budget, telling a trusted friend or family member about our triggers, or simply learning to walk away from the boxes or the screen when emotions take over?

Collectors who embrace regret as feedback begin to transform it. Instead of letting it spiral into self-punishment, they let it fuel new habits and strengthen their resilience. The sting doesn’t vanish overnight, but step by step, the weight grows lighter.

The truth is, we will all feel regret in this hobby at some point. What matters is how we carry it—and how we let it carry us forward.

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Regret doesn’t define us—it refines us.

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