In this episode of The Collector’s Compass, we’re connecting the worlds of behavioral health and collecting to uncover a deeper question—how do we help people find balance without losing what they love?

Our guest, Ryan Roelans, is the President & CEO of Better Way of Miami, a licensed clinical social worker, and an adjunct professor at Florida International University, where he teaches graduate-level courses on substance use and mental health treatment. With over 15 years in the field of recovery, Ryan brings a clinical, compassionate, and reform-minded lens to one of the most important discussions in the hobby today—how the principles of therapy, harm reduction, and recovery apply to compulsive collecting.

Together, Alyx and Ryan unpack the parallels between addiction recovery and the modern hobby. They explore how concepts like abstinence versus harm reduction mirror the ways collectors manage—or struggle to manage—their own behaviors. They discuss awareness, accountability, and the illusion of control, the psychology of relapse and impulse, and how recovery principles can reshape how we approach spending, chasing, and collecting.

The conversation also dives into legislative and ethical reform, asking how policymakers could help protect consumers without stripping the joy or freedom from collecting. Ryan shares what he’s learned from decades of treatment work—why connection and compassion matter more than punishment, and how the same community-based solutions that drive recovery can help build a healthier hobby.

Whether you’re in recovery, part of the hobby, or just trying to understand the link between psychology and collecting, this episode is about rethinking balance, regulation, and responsibility—in the hobby and in ourselves.

Subscribe, share, and join the movement toward intentional collecting—because recovery doesn’t always mean walking away. Sometimes, it means learning how to stay.

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Rock Raines loved the head first slide because he didn’t want to damage the contents in his back pocket. 🤦‍♂😂

He was able to play a game with his son Tim Raines JR while both on the Orioles in 2001

In ‘86/‘87 MLB owners colluded about Free Agency salaries to keep the salaries at a minimum. Tim was caught in the middle of that when he was a free agent. He later sued and won $865K in collusion damages.

Raines WAR was higher than fellow HOFer Lou Brock. Rickey Henderson stole much thunder from Rock Raines legendary career.

Here’s a link to all Tim ‘Rock’ Raines cards for sale on eBay: https://ebay.us/2elRB1